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Eleanor Costello, 84

November 17, 2022

Eleanor Costello (84), affectionately known by her family as Nana, passed away peacefully November 17, 2022. She died surrounded by her loved ones. She was born April 23, 1938, in Fountain Springs, Pennsylvania to Eleanor and William Whalen. She married Robert Costello (Pop) in 1960 and they were married for 62 years, a romance which began at the Costello bar where Pop worked.

Nana is survived by her five children and their spouses: Robert (Lisa), Joseph (Dana), David (Sara), Linda (Craig Erb) and Thomas (Michelle). Nana and Pop also have fourteen grandchildren: Andrew, Alex, Gerik, Evan, Kalina, Corinne, Noah, Miranda, Carli, Ryan, Annie, Christopher, Gaby, and Eric, as well as three great-grandchildren: Ashleigh, Ashtin and Lillie James. She is preceded in death by her husband Robert, her brothers William and Joseph Whalen and her sister Margret McKeon.

Nana was an incredibly accomplished woman. She graduated from St. Agnus’s School of Nursing in 1956. She then worked as a school nurse for the School District of Lancaster for over 14 years before choosing to retire. She was active in her church, St. Anthony of Padua, serving in the Eucharistic ministry and regularly attending Mass. Nana later attended St. James. She was active in her community, a value which she instilled into her children and grandchildren.

Nana loved to spend time with her children and grandchildren. She was also active in her personal life, swimming every morning and regularly attending gym classes. She was an inspiration to all at the gym, and her granddaughters struggled to keep up with her three classes a day. Nana was the heart behind the monthly birthday celebrations, yearly reunions, and holiday parties which led to her being referred to as the rock of the Costello family. Her children and grandchildren are impressed and inspired by her strength and determination, especially within her faith and values. Family friends knew Nana as Mrs. C, and, due to the fact that she was the youngest of four, she is called Aunt Babe by her nieces and nephews.

Friends and family are invited to Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home and Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543. The viewing will occur Tuesday the 22nd from 9-11 am, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Anthony of Padua Roman Catholic Church located at 501 E Orange St, Lancaster, PA 17602 at 12 noon. Interment will follow at St. Anthony’s Catholic Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family asks for donations to be made to the American Cancer Society, 1818 Market St, Philadelphia, PA 19103, or Sacred Heart Catholic School where many of her children and grandchildren attended.

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November 22, 2022

I met Eleanor at the gym many years ago and was always happy to chat with her and see her smiling face. She will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathies to her family and friends. I will keep her in my prayers!

November 22, 2022

Eleanor was a coworker at SDoL. We also shared a fondness for the game of bridge at one time; hanging out with friends to play that frustrating game. My husband and I enjoyed several gatherings at her home . She was the consumate hostess. She was a kind and good hearted person and a faithful worker. I am unable to attend her service today due to health issues but know that she is thought of today. Condolences to ALL
Emma & Jim Irvin

November 21, 2022

Our deepest sympathy to the Costello family. Your mom was a bright and loving soul. Enjoyed her presence in the neighborhood. She always had a smile on her face and was such a hard worker. She will be missed by all who knew her. May her light live in all of you. Their souls are reunited and watching over all of you. We hope memories and support of friends and family will surrounded you in the days ahead. All our love, the Foose family 

November 21, 2022

Our deepest sympathy to the Costello family.
Love,
The Andriani Family.

November 21, 2022

My sincere condolences to all the Costello family.  I got to know both mom and dad over the years and they were both special people.  So sorry for the loss.  May Eleanor’s memory be eternal.

November 21, 2022

My sincere sympathy to all Eleanor;s loved ones, Your Mother was a very special person {as you all know}.She always had a kind word and brought so much laughter to any occasion.May you find comfort in your memories and God;s love for all of you. Her St Agnes friends will alsoo miss HER.

November 21, 2022

MRS. C. HAD THE BIGGEST HEART& A SMILE TO MATCH. SHE WILL BE SORELY MISSED. PRAYERS FOR THE COSTELLO FAMILY.

November 21, 2022

Costello Family, we thoughroughly enjoyed the time that we got to share with your mom & dad over the years. Two of the kindest hearted people we have ever met. Surely they are walking together today with God in paradise. God bless you all! Gary & Kimberly Patton, Lancaster PA

November 21, 2022

Ellie was a great friend and always had a smile that lit up a room!  She will be misssd.

November 20, 2022

Prayers for all your family.mr. and Mrs. Costello were wonderful people.

November 20, 2022

I am so very sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of Mrs. Costello from my youth. Having grown up with her family, in the same neighborhood. My thoughts and prays are with the Costello family. The Duschl family.

November 20, 2022

I am so very sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of Mrs. Costello from my youth. Having grown up with her family, in the same neighborhood. My thoughts and prays are with the Costello family.

November 20, 2022

Bob, Joe,David, Linda & Tommy and families! I am so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. I hope the memories you have will help you during this time.  Eleanor was a good friend and I have such fond memories of her and Bob.  The football parties, Skyline, St. Anthony’s, visit to my parents house in New Jersey for spaghetti and meatballs and so  many more.   She  was always positive, caring, cheerful, and a beautiful friend. She and Bob raised a beautiful family and It was always obvious her love for you.   She will be missed.  Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Marie Haney

November 20, 2022

Our sincere condolences to your family! Sending lots of thoughts, love, and prayers during this difficult time 🙏
Cathy Rhinier & Lara Hooley ❤

November 20, 2022

Our deepest sympathy and condolences to all of the family.  Rest assured that you will always have many fond memories of aunt Eleanor to bring you joy in the future.
Love, John and Jennifer Shelton

November 20, 2022

Our love and thoughts go out to your family! I’m so sorry for your pain and I wish all of you strength in this difficult time.                                    

November 20, 2022

Costello Family,
Very sorry for the loss of your mom. Sending everyone well wishes and prayers at this difficult time. 

November 19, 2022

Sending Our Prayers and Condolences at this difficult time. Mrs C. Was a great lady who cared about everyone. 
The Weisbrod Family. 

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Tuesday, November 22, 2022
9:00 AM - 11:00 AM
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Lititz, PA 17543
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