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Brian S. Detwiler, 51

October 27, 2023

Brian S. Detwiler, age 51, passed away at his home in Mountville on October 27, 2023. Born in Mountville, Brian was the son of Marshall L. Detwiler and the late Linda O’Neil Detwiler. After graduating from Hempfield High School, Brian ultimately went on to earn his bachelor’s degree in psychology from Penn State University. Brian was very proud of this accomplishment, which took hard work and determination, as did many things in Brian’s life.

Once he graduated from Penn State, Brian worked at Penn State University hospital as a counselor to others with his disability. He also spoke at area high schools to educate students about accidents that can change your life in the blink of an eye, as most never think it could happen to them. Brian had a passion for wanting to help others.

Brian’s life was a shining example of courage, humor, and resilience as he served as an inspiration to many. His journey was marked by extraordinary strength, beginning at age eighteen after surviving a life-altering accident that left him paralyzed. He faced challenges with unwavering determination and a fierce will to live life to the fullest. He transformed adversity into an opportunity to inspire others. Brian was also known for his infectious humor and vivacious personality. He was the life of the party, and his witty remarks could light up a room.

Brian had a passion for sports. He was a pitcher for the Hempfield High School varsity baseball team and played football for many years, including at the high school level. Brian was a lifelong fan of his beloved Dallas Cowboys from a very early age. Once again, that determination showed as he never wavered on who his favorite NFL team was despite living his whole life in Eagle’s country. Brian also rooted for the Phillies and his alma mater, Penn State’s, football team.

In addition to his father, Marshall, Brian is survived by his bonus mom, MaryAnn Detwiler of Lititz; his grandmother, Elizabeth Detwiler of Lititz; his siblings: Marshall L. Detwiler, Jr. “Lee” of Pittsburgh, Jennifer N Baker, wife of Michael, of Pittsburgh, and Alison C, Sharkey, wife of Séan of Mays Landing, NJ; nieces, Alyssa, Olivia, Charlotte, Amelia, and nephew, Connor. He also is survived by many aunts, uncles, and cousins.

In addition to his mother, Brian is proceeded in death by his grandparents: Marshall M. Detwiler, Jr. and Paul and Dolores Denuel and an uncle, Richard Detwiler.

The family will receive family and friends on Sunday, November 12, 2023, at Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA. 17543 from 2pm to 3pm with a service to remember Brian’s life beginning at 3pm. Please wear your favorite team apparel, or if you wish and we encourage, Dallas Cowboys apparel or colors.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Brian’s memory can be made to United Disability Services.

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November 12, 2023

Brian my friend you are missed more than you will ever understand.  We have been friends for so many years and I never thought this day would happen.  I always told all the people around me about you and how inspiring you were with your personality.  How a person in your position (I could name so many ways) is able to have the strongest attitude in the world and to have a smile on your face every day that I saw him.  No matter what you always had the biggest heart.  You gave to everybody around you whenever you could even when they didn’t want it.  I will miss all the conversations we had about your family and mine, your dreams and mine.  RIP my brother, you will be sorely missed and I will keep telling the world about how great of a man you were that inspired me.
Dale Houk

November 06, 2023

TO THE DETWILER FAMILY: SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS….BRIAN ATTENDED HEMPFIELD HIGH WITH MY SON…BOBBY HIGH…THEY WERE BUDDIES  AND HE SPENT SOME TIME AT OUR HOME….HE LOOKED SO HANDSOME IN HIS BASEBALL OUTFIT…NICE POLITE YOUNG MAN…AGAIN SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND VERY PROUD OF HIS ACCOMPLISHMENTS!!..HE CAN RUN…HE CAN WALK AND HE IS WITH OUR SAVIOR💞
MAY GOD BLESS US ALL!!  ~Cheri

November 05, 2023

Buddy & Lee: So saddened to hear of Brians passing. I can’ t forget his humor and strong will, ecen thouth it’s been many years since i’ve been aound him.
Charles R Miller

November 04, 2023

Wonderful tribute to Brian! It was right on with all his attributes. I am so sorry to hear of his unexpected passing. Love you all!
Linda Mellon

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Sunday, November 12, 2023
2:00 PM - 3:00 PM
Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory
3110 Lititz Pike
Lititz, PA 17543
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