Obituaries
Apornpan (Mum) Dougherty
June 16, 2013
Mum Dougherty passed away surrounded by her loved ones in her home Sunday June 16th. Mum was loved by many as the perfect mixture of a caring compassionate heart, fun-loving spirit and persistent toughness. Born in Thailand, February 10, 1966, she and her sister joined their mother in moving to the US when she was 8. They lived in a variety of places, finally settling down in Merkel, then Abilene, Texas. She came to Lancaster to go to college at Millersville, where she graduated in 1992. By profession, she was a social worker. In her work, she dedicated herself to those most in need. She worked with seniors and their families struggling with Alzheimer’s, foster kids for COBYS, then helping people with mental disabilities have a more fulfilling life. She most recently completed her third year as part of a wonderful team of people at Manorcare. As a first generation immigrant to the US, she took nothing and no one for granted and worked hard for everything she had, and was happy to do so.
Food was one of her loves. She loved getting together with friends to drink daiquiris and eat crabs. She loved her mother’s Thai cooking and super hot food. She put her heart into everything she did often showing her loved by baking wonders for others, like her carrot cake. All was right in the world when she would go to the beach, then her family would stuff themselves at the Bonfire restaurant.
She is survived by her husband of 20 years, James J Dougherty III and the treasure of her life, her son Jimmy, and by her mother, Bunloo (Ann) Wilson and her beloved sister, Sirintorn (Sara), wife of Bill Andrews and mother of Mum’s nephews Preston and Aaron.
The family would like to express our everlasting gratitude to loved ones who have been so gracious with their care for our family during these trying months. Our dear friends and coworkers at Fulton Bank and the wonderful people at Manorcare and St. Joseph’s church have all showed us all the love and compassion that Christ demonstrated. We thank Dr. Kane and the other members of the Lancaster Cancer Center and Hospice and Community Care for their sensitive care for Mum in the worst of her moments. In lieu of flowers, please support a charity that helps those most in need.
There will be a Mass in celebration of her life at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church, 440 St. Joseph St., Lancaster, PA 17603 celebrated by Msgr. Thomas Smith on Thursday June 20th at 6:30PM. The family will receive guests beginning at 5:00PM preceding the Mass at 6:30. There will be a party to celebrate her life in St. Joseph’s Hall immediately following the Mass. She will be interred in a private ceremony the following day. To send an online condolence, please visit www.SnyderFuneralHome.com. Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory 717-872-5041
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Condolences to the Family
May the Lord bless you and your Family.
Thomas & Colette Shay 441Charles Rd.Lancaster ,PA.17603
My deepest sympathy on the loss of Mum. I’ve had the pleasure of working with Mum in the deli department at Weis Markets many years ago, and she was such a delight to work with. Her free spiritted attitude was such an inspiration to me. Please know that her spirit will always be with you. God Bless you.
Michelle Speller
To the Dougherty Family,
my sincere condolences on the loss of a great lady , mother and giving volunteer. Our family has fond memories of scouts and our boys growing up. Mum was wonderful and so generous of herself. She will be thought well of and missed.
Sincerely,
Rachael (Harmon) Townsley
To Jim and Family – I am sorry for the loss of such a beatiful person on the
inside and out. I remember the first time I met Mum at a Fulton function at the Fulton Opera House and from the moment I spoke with her I felt as if I knew her for years. I would often look forward to Fulton events that I knew you were going to be present to have a chance to chat with her. Mum was also a wonderful support to my mom who oversees my great aunt’s affairs who is a resident at Manor Care. I will continue to pray for family and may you find comfort that Mum will always be with you – a beautiful angel watching over you. God Bless You. /jody valenzo
Please know that Mum’s passing has had an impact upon many who had been blessed to have known her and her family. Jim, Jimmy and Family, I am so sorry to learn of Mum’s departure. I have always admired her cheerful nature and zest for life. She served as an example to myself and the people with whom she served during her professional career. I know that Mum loved her family above all else. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Sincerest regards,
Carol Thomas
Dear Jim & Family
Shirley & I offer our sincerest condolences. We will always remember Mum! What a great person. We know this is a very difficult time for you and your family. Please know that you, your family and Mum are in our prayers. We will miss her.
Rick & Shirley Long
My condolences to your family on your loss.
Her memory and spirit will always be with you.
Enclosed are some poems for support on nature and love.
Sincerely,
Russell Landau
rel1969@verizon.net
Spring Poem
Spring is like a warm and aromatic breeze.
Colored foliage, wet and warming a new beginning.
Hearing music outdoors.
Hearing doves "Coo"
Nature’s Gifts
The leaves rustle through the trees.
The brook is flowing with ease.
The mountains are majestic in size and beauty.
Trees are the largest plant in stance.
Month Of May Poem
May is for birds.
May is for flowers.
May is for blue skies.
May is for the green grass,
That is soft and ticklish on my feet.
A Unique and Super Lady
That special and beautiful one in your arms is a comforting and tender feeling you wish could last forever.
The bond and power of a king holding his queen is a rare beauty in a world of heartache and pain.
When someone comes along that you understand and they understand you, it is unique and doesn’t happen very often.
A Part Of My Life
You get more beautiful each day and I feel blessed to have you in my life and spend time with you.
You see things in me that others do not.
I thank you for your understanding, humor and many other qualities you add to my life.
Dear Coach Jim and Jimmy,
We were heartbroken to hear of the death of your lovely wife and mother. We found out at the game tonight…and we as Lancaster team were all so sad to hear of your lose. We all grieve with you…and our prayers and care are with you and your family. Know that we all care deeply.
Jonathan, Jennie, & Josiah Groff
We will always remember Mum for her bright smile, great sense of humor, and compassion for people. Take care Jim and Jimmy.
Sincerely,
Lori, Phil, Philip, Steven, and William Lutz
To the Dougherty family,
Our deepest condolences to the family in this most difficult time. Thoughts and prayers are being sent your way… especially from my daughters.
Ed, Kim, Lauren and Abby Novakoski
members of St. Joseph’s Church
Dear Jim and Jimmy,
I and the members of Walz, Deihm would like to share our heartfelt sympathy in the passing of Mum. While our relationship rested with "Doc" we feel like we knew Mum because of the fond stories shared with us over the years. She most certainly was a great spouse and mother. It is apparent that there are lots of fond memories, hold them close, for they will bring a smile to you when you refect on them. May God Bless you.
Brett Tennis
Walz Deihm Geisenberger Bucklen & Tennis
Dear Jim and family, I am so saddened to hear of Mum’s passing. I will always remember Mum’s vibrance and zest for life, especially when I think of her hearty laughter and her happy dancing at the St Joseph dances. Mum was a wonderful caring person with a great smile and she will be greatly missed. I pray that God will bless and comfort you and your family during this difficult time.
Susan Wisniewski
I am so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.
Carole Kirchner
Jimmy and Family,
We are so very sadly sorry for the loss of a wonderful, sweet, loving person as Mum was in all she did in her life.
She was always so gracious as a hostess for our family reunions at your home. She accepted anyone and everyone with open arms.
Her smile and laughter will always be remembered.
She will truly be missed by anyone who knew her.
With love and Prayers and thoughts and hugs,
Christine and Ron Garber
Our hearts are all sadden by her passing. Mum had such a big heart, she was so giving, caring and will be deeply missed.My Thoughts and Prayers to her family that see loved so much.
Sandy Frey (a friend from Manorcare)
Dear Jim and family,
I am so very sorry.
Barb Campbell (Rogers Mother)
Our hearts break for you right now. Please know that you and your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Much love ~ Don and Maggie Baker
May God be with you and Bless you all ! I’m so very sorry for your loss. I knew her and her family from Merkel. We are the ones who were blessed to be around this family, who taught us a different culture with love and patience. Mum will surely be missed.
I’m so sorry to hear about Mum. The news came as a huge shock to me. She was such a kind, loving, and caring person and I will never forget her smile and laugh. I always looked forward to talking to her after mass and miss her very much. My prayers are with you and your family. May God’s peace and comfort be with you in this very difficult time. Kim DeLeon
Jim and Jimmy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Mum will be missed…her laugh, great sense of humor and her smile. We, along with the entire Fulton Family, are there for you whenever you need us. God bless.
Bill and Ellen
Dear Jame & Family,
I met Mum only a few times but thought her so sweet and funny. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Menica Botta (Annie’s friend from work)
Our condolences to the family for your loss and we will continue to send prayers for each of you for comfort in this difficult time. We are thinking of you all and may GOD send forth his blessings upon you all.
Love,
Paul, Lyn, Ryan, Lacey, Jeffrey & Kaitlyn Andrews
Midland, TX
Jim,
My sincere condelences. May God bless you and Comfort you and your families hearts at this time.
Stephen Sanger
