Obituaries
Hilarie S. Helsley, 59
March 14, 2022
Hilarie S. Helsley, 59, of Lancaster, PA, passed away on Monday, March 14, 2022.
She was the wife of Dunbar M. Helsley, Jr. (“Scot”) to whom she was married on the beach at Martha’s Vineyard on September 3, 1998. Born in New Brunswick, NJ, she was the daughter of the late Paul L. and Bettielee Wigner Loemker.
Hilarie loved family fiercely and especially loved being a mom to her two sons. She had worked in years past at Stauffers of Kissel Hill.
She enjoyed going to Ocean City, NJ, and animals of all kinds.
In addition to her husband, Scot, she is survived by her two sons, both of Lancaster: Jacob D. and Joseph D.; her sister, Lisa married to Edward Cunliffe of Lititz, and by several nieces and nephews from both sides of her family.
Services will be private and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, please make contributions in Hilarie’s memory to a cause special to her: the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA), 848 S. Prince St., Lancaster, PA 17603. (www.aspca.org)
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March 19, 2022
I was friends with Lisa and Hilarie in high school (Lisa was in my wedding). I loved Hilarie. My condolences to the whole family. She was a kind and funny person. I am now taking care of a woman from Lititz and she tells me all about the area. Again my condolences – Lisa and Ed – take care along with the rest of Hilarie’s family.
March 17, 2022
I am so sorry to hear of Hilarie’s passing. She was such a wonderful woman. She cared for my dad.
Tammy McWilliams
March 17, 2022
I was shocked to see Hilarie’s passing. I worked with her at SKH.She was a very kind person. So sorry for your loss.
Sonya Metzler
March 16, 2022
Dear Scot, Jacob and Joseph,
I was so saddened to hear of Hilarie’s passing. While I never had the pleasure of meeting her in person, I know that you all loved her dearly. John and I are so saddened by your loss. May her memory be eternal!
Sally N. Inglis
